Jesus A Lesson in Self-Denial
How do we measure discipleship? Can we determine faithfulness? These are two important questions. For too long we have measured ones faithfulness by the amount of money one gives. Perhaps our measurement is built on the number of times an individual attends services each week. Although this is certainly a sign of ones commitment it cannot measure our discipleship.
Discipleship must be measured by how closely we model our lives after the Christ. Jesus is more important in the life of a true disciple than family or even self.
Jesus told his disciples in Matthew 16:24, “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” This seems simple enough doesn’t it? Consider this, can you identify your cross? All have a different cross to bear and that cross may change as your life changes. There is however one cross we all must bear. That cross is the cross of self-denial.
In Mark 8:31-32 Peter condemns the Lord for speaking of His death. Perhaps Peter is not so concerned about the Lord as he is about not getting what he wants. After all if Jesus dies Peter won’t get the high position in the Lords physical kingdom. Jesus dying doesn’t fit Peter’s agenda. Whose agenda are we focused on? Do we have the things of God in mind? It is easy to focus on Godly things in the assembly, but what about Tuesday morning or Thursday night.
In the song Poor Wayfaring Stranger there is a line that says, “I’ll soon be free from every trial, my body sleep in the churchyard I’ll drop the cross of self-denial and enter on my great reward.” How do we learn self-denial? How do we take up that cross?
First, we must be convicted of our own needs. Without our knowledge of our hopelessness we can’t follow in the footsteps of the Christ. We can’t deal with selfishness until we are convicted of our need. We can’t understand what we are and what we need until we can wrap our lives in humility.
Second, after we are convicted of our needs, we must deliberately choose self-denial everyday for the rest of our lives. Have you ever come face to face with the fact of our own selfishness in some specific deed? Have you ever know anyone who came before the church confessing selfishness? It is the easiest sin to see in others and the hardest to see in us.
If we are going to follow in the footsteps of Jesus we must bear the cross of self-denial. I have never known of church trouble that did not center on someone not getting his or her way. I have never seen a marriage in trouble that didn’t have more that it’s share of selfishness. If we are going to walk in the steps of the master we must learn to bear the cross of self-denial. If we learn this truth how much easier life would be in the church family as well as our own families.
-dell kimberly-